Tuesday, October 14, 2008

It's Blog Action Day-Let's Fight Poverty

Today thousands of bloggers will unite to discuss a single issue - poverty. We aim to raise awareness, initiate action and to shake the web! I wanted to share with you my personal experiences dealing with poverty in celebration of Blog Action Day.

As a child I was blessed with having two of the greatest parents in the entire world. Unfortunately we were not blessed with the best circumstances. I, of course, did not realize our situation at the time. It was only later that I recognized just how much work my parents did and how much they overcame to make sure we were fed, clothed, and sheltered all the while putting off their needs. Getting the most basic needs like food became increasingly difficult and we had to resort to government means. I remember standing in the line at the local army depot awaiting our cheese, milk, and bread.

I grew up in a trailer that was awesome. I thought I had the biggest house ever and never knew anything different. That all became a dream after we lost our home. I was very young, probably around 6, although I can't really remember. We were forced to stay wherever anyone would let us. Fortunately we had a great family, for the most part. I was shuffled around houses, sleeping on couches with my two brothers. Christmas came that year and I was amazed to look under our tree to see a brand new pink bike and an EZ Bake Oven. What was interesting is that we had Christmas in a automotive shop that my Dad built. There were a couple of kerosene heaters going to keep us warm. The floor was covered some sort of foam so we didn't have to celebrate on the cold concrete. Looking back now I wish we had not had a big Christmas. There were so many other things that we needed.

Luck finally came our way and we were able to get a new trailer. It was an old repo that needed a LOT of work. My Dad busted his behind day and night to make it livable. It was much smaller than the other house but we had a home. There, in that trailer, I got sick. I was diagnosed with a chronic illness that required many doctors and hospital visits. This was back in the day when children with chronic illness could not get insurance. I was shuffled about while doctor after doctor shrugged their shoulders because they could not figure out was wrong. I was wasting away and the bills were mounting. I lived in hell and I still can't fathom what my parents went through. It took every penny my Mom and Dad had, and those they didn't have, to get treatment for me. In the end, we lost our home.

Now I sit here, with tears in my eyes, thinking about the two most heroic people that I could ever know. I grew up in circumstances that were less than ideal but I sit here as a recent Master's Graduate making my dream come true. I have had the pleasure of obtaining a top-notch education, travel the world, and live the best life ever. I have had difficulties, who hasn't? I have learned what really makes a difference in a person's life. I would not change a thing about my childhood (well, maybe I would cut out that who genetic illness thing). I continually hope I am half of the parent my parents were. I had it lucky. I had people there to help. To encourage me along the way. To hold my chin up when I was down.

Most people living in poverty do not have have these circumstances. They are not afforded these opportunities. I want to be one of those people that encourage. That help. That hold people's chin up high. That is why I am proud to be part of Blog Action Day.

Now, Will you help? For every comment left on this post before Midnight Mountain Time on October 15th I will donate a can of food to the Metro Food Bank, up to 50 cans. It doesn't take anything on your part except 5 seconds to tell me how you help your community. Please, if you are inspired leave a comment here and then find a way to help those living in poverty in your own community.

I will leave you with this: "If the misery of the poor be caused not by the laws of nature, but by our institutions, great is our sin." ~Charles Darwin

17 Comments:

Doug said...

Crystal:

An amazing story--thanks for sharing it, and giving us a glimpse of your remarkable life and your remarkable parents. Thanks also for your willingness to take tangible action to help others in your community.

Michelle Greer said...

Keep on keeping on. Thank you for this post.

onlyhuman said...

Yes, a wonderful story, and made more so by your choice to turn your experience into a instrument of compassion and comfort for others living in dire ituations. Keep on keepin' on!

SCA MarCom said...

Wow. What a powerful story of hope and perseverance. Thanks for sharing it and for donating to the Denver Food Bank.

Bob said...

Go for it, Crystal! A tip o' the hat to ya!

Audio Weatherman said...

Wow, what a honest and tough story to tell. Thanks for sharing and thanks for giving.

vrob said...

Thanks for donating.

Claire said...

Thanks for sharing your story and for your personal efforts in alleviating the hunger of others.

CarolAnn said...

What an inspirational story...more should be so blessed to read this. Thanks for sharing.

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Pamela A Heyen said...

You are a blessing!
Love & Hugs! PAM

dstjames said...

A moving story. Glad it sounds like you got over whatever ailed you as well!

Scraplin said...

I enjoyed your story. It amazes me what parents do for their children when they have no other choice. I am glad you are the kind person you are today, because of your experiences.

Tarot By Arwen said...

Crystal, thank you so much for sharing this. It was an amazing story and moved me to tears.

Suzi and Adam and Drew! said...

Thank you for using your voice for such an important cause.

UltraRob said...

What a moving story! I didn't have a lot growing up but had everything I needed and more. It's sometimes hard for me to understand what some people have gone through. Yet many of them still follow their dreams and make a better life.

You are doing a great thing for the hungry in Denver. I'm doing something for the hungry in Colorado Springs today.

kitrona said...

Thanks for sharing your story... this illustrates exactly how easy it is to become one of "them", how close to the edge most people actually live. One major illness, one child needing something beyond the everyday, one of the income-makers getting sick or losing a job, and anyone could be the family standing in line at the food bank or soup kitchen. I've been there before, I'm there now, and it's not a fun place. Thank you for doing something to help.

ScrapMomOf2 said...

Oh my goodness Crystal, what a heartfelt post. Your parents sound amazing. We try to do things in our own community. We adopted the road that we live on, and as a family we keep it clean. We volunteer whenever possible at the local library. We also support as much as we can the dog shelter where we adopted Princess. We are currently seeking volunteer opportunities there too. My husband and I teach our girls that many people struggle, and that we should always be thankful for what we have. It's terrible that the economy is horrible, and there will be many more families struggling on a day-to-day basis. I admire anyone that tries to make a difference!